Qualities Men Secretly Crave In Their Woman!

1.Appearances. 

Any guy who tells a girl that he cares more about what is on the inside than on the outside the first time he meets her is full of crap.

Men are attracted by the physical appearance of a woman first, and they learn to love *or put up* with the personality of the woman next. I’m not saying this is the correct way of viewing things, but it is the most accurate way to describe men and first impressions. 

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2.Positive attitude. 

No guy wants to sit down day after day and hear a sob story about how awful his girlfriend’s life is, how she feels like crap about herself day after day, and how she hates the fact that she can’t fit into her jeans anymore, etc.

If your list of negativity goes on and on, at first, your guy may try and help boost your self esteem, but if it is a constant, nagging tug on the relationship, the guy will either just tune the whining out or leave the relationship altogether.

3.Shows vulnerability. 

Men love to be the heroes, and we love to feel like we came and rescued the day. When a woman opens up and talks about her troubles, it makes us men feel like we can help solve the problem and be the knight in shining armor she was always looking for as a young girl.

4.Acknowledging a man’s stare. 

This is something that matters more during the flirting stage, but being able to tease a man who is interested, is just as fun as what happens once a relationship begins.

Knowing a guy is checking you out, and masterfully using that knowledge to pull the guy in further is an incredibly sexy skill to have. And one that all guys love in a girl!

5.Independent and self-supporting. 

As much as we men love playing the role of the hero, we do love a woman who is independent and does not rely too much on others. Of course, we’d want to help you all the time. But we’ll feel so much better about it if we know that you’re so skilled and awesome that you’d be able to handle yourself even if we’re not around to help you fix that flat tire. 

Now that you know the 5 qualities that men secretly crave in a woman, how many of these traits do you have? And just how well has it worked for you in your relationship?

~Originalnaijagist